‘Winning’ is tough, and sometimes takes a long time to manifest.  So be prepared to take some L’s, which can either be a ‘Loss’ or a ‘Learn’ (Learning experience).  With every ‘L’, it should provide with knowledge on what went right/wrong, and how you can improve what happened the next time.   It’s all about perspective; from Steve Jobs to Bill Gates to Warren Buffet, they all had many, many, many L’s, but with each L, they learned from it and continuously improved.  Embrace and Learn from the L.