How others see you is not important; it’s about how you see yourself
We may have many opponents that wish upon our downfall (or at least hate on us), but when we look in the mirror, what we see is usually our biggest opponent. Our self is what either determines that we are crippled by our insecurities, or we will rise above our insecurities and strive for excellence. So, when you look into that mirror, what do you see? Better yet, what do you hope to see? That is the question.